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Saturday, January 9, 2016

Job Interview

Job interview yesterday was a little different. Chris is the Program Director. He was wearing jeans and we sat in his office. Ray went with me. The #1 bus took us from Cambridge to the South End of Boston. Then we had to walk a few blocks. It wasn’t terrifying, but it was not a classy neighborhood, not residential at all. Empty lots and warehouses with a fair number of people on the sidewalk.

We went in and the woman at the desk suggested we wait in the “caf,” where we could have had lunch if we had wanted, or at least something to drink. Ray got some coffee and then he wandered off to a Subway I had found on my phone. I sat a little longer, looking around at the people serving and eating…almost all men, of all ages, not looking particularly dangerous or slovenly. I went to the rest room and decided I looked fine.


Chris talked more than he asked me questions. I learned a lot about Hope House and the field of addiction. He said alcoholism is not much of a problem any more, only affecting about 2% of the residents. Mostly it’s heroin.

Wednesday, January 6, 2016

Happy New Year!

Amelia's first Buche de Noel
Ray's method of deconstructing the Christmas tree

My grandmother's tablecloth comes out once a year


A smaller version of a childhood favorite

The woods with Cameron and spiderwebs

That's all, folks!

Ours is on the left

1/3/16 4:29 PM

It was New Years Day, 2016. Ray and I were still eating breakfast in our home in the country.

Kent was the first to arrive, not surprisingly, a little before 9 am. He looked like a cross between Santa Claus and Jimmy Stewart, lanky with a full white beard. We had known each other more than 30 years and he was the salt of the Earth, a really nice guy. He was an attorney helping people get the disability payments they were entitled to. He was also really smart, reading a lot and remembering it, in all kinds of subjects, sports, politics, you name it. He could talk about anything and usually did.
“Strong back, weak mind,” he said disparagingly of himself. “Just tell me what you need me to do. I take direction well.”

Although Ray was a great packer, meticulous about getting everything in right, he would much rather talk to Kent than start loading the truck. We were hoping to leave by noon, but I was pretty sure that wasn’t happening. He ate some breakfast and showed Kent where we were heading, but I was getting pretty restless by the time anything happened. Gradually, though, they managed to get three bookcases into the back of the truck. Kent would help carry and then stand around while Ray carefully tied it in.

Meanwhile, his wife Becky had arrived. She had eaten and taken the dogs for a walk before coming over. They almost always went everywhere in two cars. In this case, Kent was going to work as soon as he left us and Becky had errands to run. “She’s really good at packing,” Kent bragged. It was true. I had seen her in operation before, with things spread out in the driveway getting ready for a trip to the beach. The thing was, she always took way more than I thought she needed. She drove a minivan, even though their kids, like ours, were grown and gone, out on their own in their 20s and 30s. Hers were on the West Coast, mine not quite so far away, in North Carolina and Massachusetts.

She packed several boxes of books for me before I hit the jackpot. Molli had carried up some things from the basement she wanted us to bring to her, but she hadn’t exactly packed them. They were fairly randomly set in boxes, new wedding presents and old glass figurines, none of them wrapped or arranged with any care. Becky set to work. “Don’t you want me to run out and get more boxes…or buy some paper?” she asked me. “I’m sure we can manage,” I said. The nearest store was five miles away, and it was a good bit further to any place she could buy packing materials.

One of my goals for my new life was to buy as little as possible…use up, make do or do without. Becky was a classic consumer, and her house was like mine, only more so, filled to the brim with STUFF. They were all things we had wanted at one point, but we rarely used them or admired them or got any pleasure from them. Mine had become a weight around my neck, like the albatross to the mariner, and I was running away as fast as I could.

John Z and Gini arrived shortly after that, bringing corn bread and greens and jumping in. Gini helped Becky with the packing and John helped carry. A retired architect, he was also really good at advising us on things that would make our house sell better. 

We could have taken twice as much!
The last of the crew was John O, a retired math professor. He had a sailboat and was great with knots, so Ray appreciated his help. He also hung right in there and managed to stay busy all the time. He and Ray were mainly on the truck and we would bring them boxes or John Z and Kent carried things to them, like our bed. Moving the bed revealed a nasty layer of dust on top of some things that had been under there, like old slippers.

Unlike years ago, our friends were not interested in helping us move in exchange for pizza and beer. They just wanted to help us and be with us. We gave John O. some beer that we had in the fridge to take home, so it would get used. We drank a bottle of champagne, with orange juice, and finished up the Christmas stollen I had made. It was still delicious. We ate turkey soup and corn bread and greens and sent them away. We could probably finish better without their help, once all the heavy things were on the truck. The big old TV was the last to go, although we did not plan to pay for cable service in Massachusetts. We would watch DVD’s from the library instead.

At the other end, in Cambridge, Molli and her husband and sister-in-law were waiting for us. It was 11:00 by the time we got there, and pretty cold. There had been snow a few days before and there was a little frozen dirty snow at the edges of the street. Molli gave me the keys and I grabbed a few small things and opened the door. Molli and Carlos had the box spring. They decided it wouldn’t fit in the elevator and muscled it up two flights. I took the elevator, which WAS small, but elegantly shabby, with marble on the walls and floor.

I unlocked the door’s two locks and looked at my new home. A narrow entrance hall, with a tiny bathroom on the right and coat closet on the left. Straight ahead the bedroom, which seemed quite large to me now with nothing in it. It had a long closet and a good-sized window. The main room was to the left, with a kitchen at one end. There was room for a table and chairs, as well as a couch and TV. It had a really large window, with a view of another apartment building. The wood floors were nice and the little kitchen had everything I needed, including a tiny dishwasher. I couldn’t wait to start putting things away.

For now, though, we got the bed in and Tamara helped me make it (we had put the sheets where we could get to them easily and remember where they were). There was a suitcase with pajamas and toothbrushes and everything else would wait. We turned on the heat and got into our bed. It was so cold, Ray asked for some sweaters to put over us, on top of the heavy blanket.

***

Yesterday, we picked up a few more items from my cousins: a small dresser, a small coffee table, and some more dishes, glasses and flatware. Then we returned the truck to Medford. Medford is where my Mom grew up and I always am excited to see it. I keep thinking I’ll naturally feel some connection, which is pretty silly since I don’t even remember her talking about visiting there. Her Mom moved away when she got married and she didn’t seem to be particularly fond of the place. I think they lived mainly in poverty and loneliness. Her older sisters and brother were ten years older and didn’t live nearby.

1/6/16 7:47 AM

It was bitter cold yesterday (8 degrees in the morning!). Much warmer today at 20. Fortunately the heat works very well. It is electric baseboard, with a thermostat for each room, so I keep the bedroom quite cold most of the time and turn the living room down when I go out. It heats up really quickly once I turn it on again. I am a little concerned about how much the bill will be, but won’t know that for a while.

We are pretty much settled now, with (almost) everything we could want. I have been reading Marie Kondo’s book about “tidying up.” It is really quite interesting, although I am not a convert to her entire method (emptying your purse every time you come home and putting it away is overkill for me). My favorite thing so far is folding clothes and putting them in the drawer so you can see everything you have. I also like the idea of “heaviest” on the left and lightest on the right. I’m not sure why it makes sense, but maybe just having a system is good.

I have my own version of her system: choose the things that you like best and move them to a new place. Whatever is left you can get rid of! I will try to get rid of unnecessary clutter every day and keep things tidy here. Already I have some things I don’t really need, but I do have some unused storage space! It’s a great feeling. Six dresses is probably enough, right?

Every thing I do is establishing a new routine for me, which is a powerful thought. Of course, it can be changed if it doesn’t work, but it’s interesting to think about what the next year will bring. I have been going to bed very early (which is normal for me anyway), partly because it’s cold and I am tired and sore from what I have been doing. It’s also in part because there is no TV or internet! I can’t decide if I like how freeing that is, or can’t wait until I have the money for it. In the meantime, I can watch DVD’s (the Elton John Greatest Hits concert that I never watched before, for instance) and read. I can also take my computer to the library to use the internet, or go to Molli’s.

She asked if we wanted to have dinner with them last night. Of course, I said yes. Since the table is here, we ate here, and I made dinner. I even made a blueberry pie, Molli’s favorite. I had taken frozen blueberries with me and they had thawed and needed to be eaten…if I want blueberry pancakes, I’ll have to buy more. For the main course, I planned chicken curry. Unfortunately, I have no spices other than salt and pepper. Also no celery. It was still edible, but maybe not really curry.

Tamara showed up before Molli and Adrian, who were about an hour late. She had an away swim meet and that is why we were going to have dinner, just the four of us. Five is doable, but I didn’t make quite enough rice. Of course, she was very hungry too.

Our main task yesterday was walking to the hardware store in Harvard Square, Dickson’s. It is a pretty interesting and quirky old store. One of the fun things about that part of Cambridge is the juxtaposition of old and new. The Gap is across the street. There is history all around, but lots of tourists and students as well. We had keys made to the apartment for Molli and Tamara…and Ray. We bought some necessities, like light bulbs and a Swiffer.

One of Marie’s lessons is to appreciate everything you own. In my case, having a lamp that brightens the bedroom is delightful…and a nice new Swiffer to keep the wood floors clean. Abundance that does not bring joy is almost a burden. Being able to take pleasure in every object in my space is very valuable…and to be grateful for the job they are doing…my worn loveseat and ottoman that have been underused for many years are now the focal point of my living room. There is a photo on the wall over them that my Dad took of a sunrise, with the Seal Island Bridge in the background. It makes me happy for many reasons. It’s beautiful, my father took it and had a large print made for me, and it reminds me of when I was younger and we spent summers in Nova Scotia. I was asleep below when my Dad took the picture.

I am very nervous about the future. Ray leaves on Saturday and I will miss him. I am not sure how I will like living alone. Somehow that wasn’t really part of my plan. I came here to be with Molli and Tamara, and I will see them a lot. Yet, when this apartment became available and I thought I could afford it, thanks to my employment, it seemed like a good idea to give them (and me) a little space. Three women in two bedrooms wasn’t ideal.

I generally try to be rational and make decisions based on all the factors. Yet, lately I seem to be flying by the seat of my pants and following my intuition over and over again. The jury is still out on whether that is going to be a good thing in the end. I am supposed to be concentrating on getting the house on the market, but that hasn’t happened. This was the week we were going to work on that, but we brought a truckload of stuff here instead. Ray is coming back for MLK day and he didn’t like the idea of sleeping on an inflatable single bed on the floor, with little or no furniture. We realized that we had time to drive now and he wouldn’t again until March. It’s easy to rationalize now, but the house is still not ready to be listed!


Also, it’s cold here and there’s not a lot for us to do, now that we are pretty much moved in. Grocery shopping, cooking, washing dishes… Once I am working, it makes sense to be here, obviously. Ray can always work on his class preparations.

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

Fall in the City

Cambridge library
I was only home for 5 days this time and they were busy ones. I did a lot of baking and didn't have much time for anything else. It was my last time at the Farmers' Market. I doubt that I'll be selling baked goods to the public again. I enjoyed it, although I would not describe it as "lucrative." I learned a lot and will miss the people.
Treated myself to a special lunch at a French bakery...ate all the dessert, but not all the sandwich.
I did see some of my good friends, watched the movie "Brooklyn" at Cine, and sang on Sunday morning before hopping on the shuttle to the airport.
Shopping for Thanksgiving...on foot, of course!
fudge pecan pie
apple pie, for Tamara and my Dad
This is the way we make sweet potatoes for Thanksgiving
Tamara goes to the Rainbow Ball
My Dad's favorite part of Thanksgiving: pie for breakfast
we spent a little time on the Cape: Ray and Barbara
When I got to Boston, it was still light out, but the sun had gone down before I left the terminal with my luggage. No checked bags this time, just a (large) purse and a rolling suitcase. I could do with even less if it weren't for carrying my laptop back and forth. It's really too heavy to carry by hand--the reason I switched from my beloved boat bag to the rolling case. I also brought the menorah, so I could celebrate Hanukah with Molli and Tamara here. 

ate at the Yarmouthport Inn, Barbara's favorite
 All was fine at work, although they did not seem to have missed me much. I got my hair cut while I was in Athens and no one has noticed.














also breakfast with the girls






























lobster roll!

blueberry bushes in Fall
I looked at an apartment near here yesterday and I"m really torn. Of course, it's a great deal at only $1700 a month...it will take most of my earnings every month, but the rest of my expenses are covered by my husband. It is really nice, hardwood floors, updated bath and kitchen, and only a block from Molli. Of course, I won't have any furniture or kitchen stuff (except what she shares with me), but that's okay. The question is how much do I (and they) need the privacy? Obviously, I can still cook for them and be around as much as they need me. Is it worth the money? Alternatively, how much time do we want to spend with three of us in a 2 bedroom 1 bath apartment? And, of course, hopefully, Adrian will be back one of these days.

How much do I love my job here? How secure is it? Are they likely to keep me on, increase my pay? How lonely will I be, spending the majority of my time in a tiny apartment by myself? Or will I love it? Is it time to be a grown up? I know I will miss the natural spaces around my house, and the beautiful house itself, not to mention the company of my devoted husband and many friends.

Star Wars brownie birthday cake (with no dairy)
Frost on oregano
Someone in Athens said it was like being a 20-year-old again. This is the kind of thing people do when they're right out of college and trying to find themselves. It doesn't really feel the same to me. I'm not looking for love, or even friends, really. I'm happy to be gainfully employed at a worthwhile organization. I like the lifestyle of walking and taking transit.

There are some things I will really enjoy about being alone, like making every decision based on what I want...even though they are little ones, like what to watch on TV when (not that I'll have a TV) or not worrying about bothering anyone else when I get up.

And I'll look forward to having Ray (and maybe other people) visit me.













Sunday, November 15, 2015

I win at life!

OK, most people might think it's silly, but I am tickled because I used up the ricotta before it went bad. Molli had bought some for something and used a small amount, but there was still almost 4 cups of an expensive delicious ingredient that needed to be eaten. Friday night is usually pizza night around here...homemade pizza if I have time. So, we had ricotta on our pizza. Then yesterday morning I made ricotta blueberry mini-muffins to take to my cousin's for brunch. And this morning...ricotta pancakes! Oh, so good.


Friday, November 13, 2015

City Scape

Some photos to give a sense of the neighborhood.




Wednesday, November 11, 2015

Back to the City

I'm back! It's raining wildly outside, but it's hot and dry in here. You would think that would be good, but I miss being able to watch the rain come down and huddle on the couch with a blanket. Yesterday, it never got below 70 in the apartment, even though the heat was set on 60. It's humid here, but nothing like Georgia. My lips are chapped, my hands are dry, my nose is stuffy. My body will adjust.

It had rained in Athens for about 3 weeks, every day. Sometimes it was overcast and misty, sometimes it poured. I emptied the 6 inch rain gauge twice. The ground was soggy. Once when I looked out, the driveway was a sheet of water. There were streams everywhere when we went for a walk. I could hear the river roaring and the dog seemed nervous, although we are very safe from flooding where our house is.
The day I flew to Boston was gray and cold. I had emailed the shuttle company for a reservation (with a gift certificate I had gotten at a fundraising auction), but never heard back. Although I was mostly ready ahead of time, there were still some shoes I wanted to stuff in somewhere and the food I was taking for the trip, the heavy coat, gloves, hats, and scarves...to somehow fit into the three suitcases and the purse...
We were not early...the van was there. I went in and gave the man my name and showed him my letter, but he said there were no seats. Another (young) woman was waiting already. She had missed the earlier shuttle. We hoped that two of the reservations would not show up. Otherwise, I could still make my flight if I took the next shuttle. It was also full, but there was always a chance.

The young woman was a Geology graduate student that I had met and Ray knew. She is from Madagascar. I'll call her V...I can't pronounce her name and don't know how to spell it. She has a slightly British-sounding accent, but her English is very good. She was in a panic, had to make a 1:00 flight and couldn't wait for the next shuttle. "I'll have to drive," she said. "In that case, I'll go with you," I answered..."if that's all right." She was clearly distressed. "Do you have a GPS? I don't know if my car can make it," she worried. Ray and I quickly hatched a plan. "You drive me to our house and we'll take our Prius. You can leave your car there and Ray will meet you when you come back. I have driven to the airport many times. We'll be fine." Of course, driving to the Atlanta airport in the rain under stressful conditions is not something I really wanted to do, but it seemed like the best option for me and the only option for her. So that's what happened. Except that she was in charge of telling me what my phone said, and I am in the habit of ignoring the phone when I know what I'm doing, and the phone changed the route to go through Atlanta, which I was trying to avoid, so it took a little longer and was a little more stressful than it should have been.

In the meantime, Ray booked a parking place for me at the Holiday Inn. The question was should I take her to the airport and then go park and get myself back in time for my flight at 1:35 or should we park the car and go together on the van to the airport? It seemed to take forever to get to the Holiday Inn and the next shuttle was at noon. We had time to park and fill out paperwork and go to the bathroom and get all the luggage ready. The driver was dawdling...but we got there. I hope she made her flight without too much more stress. We dropped her off at Delta and went around to Southwest for me. I rented a cart for my three bags for $5, pushed it across the road to the check in counter, and then abandoned it. My boarding pass was supposed to be in my email, but it wasn't. I hadn't checked, because it had worked for me before, but the woman was nice enough to look it up and print it. The bags were all small enough to check, so I didn't have to worry about that.

I was trying a new system, which involved not carrying the giant LL Bean boat bag my mother gave me years ago. I always take it on trips. It's tough as nails, no sign of wear, except I could probably wash it. I keep it packed and standing by, with things like candy and earbuds and books...It's always too heavy to carry, mostly because of my laptop. I can't imagine checking the computer, so it has to come in carry on. This time I used a small wheeled suitcase for my carry on, plus a purse. Southwest lets me check two bags for free! That meant I could bring Molli some things, like her teakettle and some cushions for the couch. I couldn't easily carry the two bags plus the rolling one and the purse, though. In the car, I found a small folding umbrella that I definitely wanted to bring, and a bag, one that I kept a few papers in for my work. I ditched the papers and stuffed my purse, the umbrella, the food (quiche, grapes), and the gloves in the slightly larger bag and I was set. Still had the coat, sometimes on, sometimes over my arm.

I bought a stromboli at Famiglia and had time to eat it sitting down before we boarded. I couldn't get the box to the trash without leaving my bags unattended, and you know what the TSA says about that. I will be more tolerant now of trash I find at the airport.

As a single traveler, it is usually easy to get a good seat. The Southwest system is interesting and pretty smart. I don't have an assigned seat. I always forget that I should check in as early as possible, because the boarding order is according to when you check in (unless you pay extra). The first people on generally fill in the window and aisle seats from the front to the back. I could have gone all the way to the back to see if there were any more of those available. Or I could sit in a middle seat very near the front...which is what I did. Of course, I had to get my wheeled bag in the overhead bin (just barely fit) and the man at the aisle had to get out. My seat mates gave off a faint vibe of displeasure, like if I didn't sit in that seat, it might stay empty. We know every seat is full almost always these days. They got over it.

A direct flight from Atlanta to Boston is quite quick. We were in mist and clouds almost the whole way. I put my phone in airplane mode, refusing to pay the $2 for internet access (or whatever), and edited my contacts. I have a lot of names from years gone by, starting with when I had my own business. It is hard for me to delete their information...you never know. Other names come from social work jobs...getting those phone numbers of people who can really help was so useful, even though I don't think I'll ever need them, and they might not still be good...I have trouble deleting them. Also, my phone does a weird thing. I wonder if other people have the same experience. Many of the photos are wrong. I'll say, "who is Denise Carrington? I don't remember that name...hmm, looks like my sister...it is my sister! well, her photo anyway..." Then I can either delete the whole thing or delete the photo. I don't know if it will creep back or not.

As we came down to the landing strip, the sun shone on us! It was really pleasant. Of course, it was dark by the time we came out of the terminal, because the sun sets so much earlier here in the Northeast. No problems getting my luggage. My sweet daughter met me to help carry it (of course, some of it was for her). I love being able to take the train everywhere. In this case, I didn't even have to pay. You can take the train for free from the airport. It was a long ride, and a crowded, almost rush hour train, but we sat and talked all the way. It's about a half mile walk from the Harvard Square stop to Molli's apartment, but it wasn't too cold and it wasn't raining!

Tamara was at school, in the last week of rehearsals for the musical, which opens Friday! She got done about 10, but I was asleep by then. I unpacked everything and Molli fed me leftovers from "Friendsgiving" last Saturday: roast chicken with gravy, sweet potato and squash, and a piece of pumpkin pie she had saved me. We watched a little TV and I knit some on her (last year's) sweater. She picked out a few books for me and I read a bit, then fell asleep in a comfortable bed with clean sheets she had made up for me.

Yesterday morning, I was up before 4...must do something about getting my internal clock fixed! There were a couple English muffins, yogurt and fruit and peanut butter she had bought for me. And tea. Eventually Tamara got up, said hello, walked the dog, and rushed to school, where she has begun eating breakfast lately, with friends. Molli rebuffed my friendly greeting: "you're too excited about the morning." She did join me briefly at the breakfast table, as I applied to a couple interesting part-time jobs.

I walked her to the bus stop and went back into the apartment (she had given me her keys). I spent a little more time researching job possibilities...one part-time database manager for an organization helping children in Tanzania! It feels good to think there are so many options here...of course, there are more applicants too! Then I took my shower, got dressed, and walked down to the UU Church in Harvard Square, First Parish.

It is a big old stone church...I must take some pictures. I love the feeling of being "in" history. They were doing some work on the street and I had to go around. Because it's the city, I had to ring a buzzer for them to let me in. I reminded Carol, the secretary, who I was (Patty from Georgia) and set my things down in the huge, high-ceilinged hall. There are built-in benches with leather-covered seat cushions under a bay window and in the corner. No one was around, but the bread and peanut butter and jelly were set up.

Soon Louise came in. She is in her late 70s I think. I can't remember all the details of her life that I learned in September, but I think her husband died a while ago and she lives alone. She is flying up to Detroit this week to visit a nephew in Ann Arbor and was worrying about whether she could wear "sweat pants" on the plane. Her sweat pants are nicer than any that I have. She talked about finding her mother's stash of Twinkies when she died. Jane arrived a little later. She may be slightly younger, but they have clearly known each other a long time...and their families. We made sandwiches and chatted (I mostly listened) until the smoke alarm went off. I could see smoke in the kitchen and the cook was clearly not worried. We all had to gather our coats and things and leave the building... About 10 people came down the stairs and out of the rooms and stood on the steps. The fire engines came with their sirens...I got the feeling this happens a lot. I checked with the cooks and it seemed they had everything under control, so I decided I didn't need to stay. They asked if I would be back next Tuesday and I said I didn't know. "I'll be in Cambridge, and if they don't need me to sub, I'll probably be here."

I headed back through Harvard and spent some time at the Farmers' Market. Only about 10 vendors this time, probably dwindles with the season. I compared prices a couple places and bought some Macintosh apples (my favorite!) and broccoli, as well as a nice Rye bread...and a donut from the Union Square stand. It wasn't a lot, but carrying anything, while wearing a coat, gets tiring after a while.

Back at the apartment, I heated up a couple pieces of spinach quiche I had brought from Athens, ate them and an apple. I reluctantly got ready to go out again. It wasn't very cold, but overcast and seemed to threaten rain. I reorganized what I had in my bag to include a small umbrella and leave behind everything I could do without. I checked my route on the appropriate app, and headed out.

At the end of Molli's block (the long way), and around the corner, is a bus stop. I waited there almost 20 minutes. I think the regulars (like Molli) check on the buses and see if they are on time before leaving. She arrives with less than a minute to spare. I am not yet that blase and would rather wait a while than take a chance on missing it.

I put my ticket in the machine, but there was only 40 cents left on it. I fed a dollar in and he said that was enough (it's supposed to be 2.10, but I think they hate to make change). Watched the buildings go by for a while and glanced at my phone some. At Sullivan Square, I got out. With a card, transfers are free, but I had to pay again. This time I fed two dollars in and the driver said not to worry about the rest.

My fingerprint appointment was in Everett, partly because I wanted to see the area. Under the heavy gray skies, it was not very appealing, although not really run down. Big, multi-family houses line Broadway, with a nail salon and a Dairy Maid and other small businesses occasionally fitting in. There is a triangle with a bandstand and flowers and a sign that says Everett where I got off. I walked down the hill about a block before figuring out I was going the wrong way and turning around. Back up the hill was a little less pleasant. Yes, there was Mason Street, just a little past where I had gotten off the bus.

The building was not very impressive. I went in a small screen door on the side to find a few chairs, a copy machine, and a couple women. "Can I help you? Do you have an appointment?" "Well, yes, but I think it's later." "Your name?" She checked list and found me, introduced herself and asked me to wait. "We'll fit you in if we have a gap between appointments." The other woman was called and it wasn't long before she finished. It seemed that 15 minutes was more than enough between customers. Katherine, I think she said her name was, invited me back, making pleasant conversation meant to relax me. No ink pads, only a machine with little glass panes. She directed me as which fingers to put where and when, applying pressure and rolling them. She gave me a little receipt and told me the results would be sent to the school in a few weeks. (I didn't ask why it would take so long. I guess they have to check them against the criminal registries, but even so...how long can it take?)

So I had a couple hours with no obligations. I had wanted to spend time in Everett, but it seemed I had seen what there was to see, more or less. I walked a few stops back toward home before getting on the bus again. I didn't have two dollars, and the driver couldn't change a twenty. I offered him one, but he advised me to get a Charlie card. Each ride is cheaper that way and you get free transfers. I said it's really hard to find them. He said he usually carried a couple extras and that some employee would probably have one.

When I got off in Sullivan Square, I went to the machines there and bought a ticket, but you can't get a car there and I didn't see any employees. I had about 15 minutes before my bus, so I looked around a bit, but there wasn't much there, without going in the subway (and using my ticket). I found a man sitting in a booth marked First Aid and asked where the 89 was. He directed me. When I asked, he said you could only buy Charlie cards in Boston.

I got off the bus near the Whole Foods store to pick up some ingredients. It was a little walk to the store and a longer walk home from there. I tried to limit myself to the most urgent items in the smallest quantities. My shoulders and back just don't hold up. I like the Whole Foods, although it was pretty crowded at this time of day, and it's not cheap. I chatted with a cheese man from France, who told me that authentic Quiche Lorraine has no cheese in it. I had not heard that before. He is from Brittany.

Trudging home in the almost dark, I texted with Molli about dinner. I could make sweet potato-black bean hash (it's pretty yummy) or we could go out. The last time I was here, we almost never went out to eat. Tamara would be rehearsing again until late, so the two of us could enjoy a treat. At the apartment, I put things away and rested for a bit before putting on my shoes and coat and heading to the restaurant. I walked more miles yesterday than Ray did! No lasting damage, just tired and a little achy.