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Saturday, April 10, 2010

My sleep patterns are getting all messed up--maybe it's spring. Or Ray's snoring. This morning I woke up at 3 and haven't been able to go back to sleep. It's Saturday, for goodness sake! Yesterday morning I woke up at 2 and finally got back to sleep at 4, only to have to get up again at 7. It was a beautiful day, sunny but not too hot. I worked 8 hours straight. M. wasn't in the office. I was working mainly on the policies and procedures. Lots of things that are written down and not happening.

The day before was rainy, but we were really glad to have it. It cleared the pollen and watered the plants. The garden is doing very well. We are eating asparagus and lettuce is coming along. Cathie cleaned most of the downstairs thoroughly, which was great, but I couldn't get in the kitchen until after 7, so we had a late supper.

My parents want the four of us to go to France and spend a week on a canal boat. I am always game for going to France, but now the arrangements are making me crazy. Oh, for the days when you could just ask a travel agent to do it for you. Air fares are so high. But it will probably work out to see some of our friends in France. And my parents are not getting any younger!

Thursday, April 8, 2010

This morning I was having a bad dream. In my dream, I heard shots, but part of my brain was awake enough to say "I shouldn't be hearing shots--they must be coming to get us." I was trying to wake up Ray in my dream and I couldn't get him to wake up. So I woke up instead and got up.

It is finally starting to get light early enough for me to walk the dogs before breakfast and still get to work on time. It's 6:41 and I can hear the birds.

It's a little darker today because it is supposed to rain. Thank goodness. The pollen is bothering everyone. It gets in my contacts and makes my eyes hurt. And the garden needs it. It is a beautiful garden, with healthy little plants. Hopefully, we can harvest some things before the grasshoppers eat it all. I have baby strawberries and blueberries and the pecan and fruit trees are leafing out beautifully. My Dad has started lots of plants from seeds and set them into the garden: lettuces, cabbage, broccoli, tomatoes, peppers, eggplants, squashes, cucumbers, even pumpkins. Then he has to worry about them. Carrots, radishes, beets, spinach, onions are coming up. And the asparagus! It is a fun time to live in Georgia, although it is getting too hot too fast some days.

On Tuesday, my mother and I went to hear Andrew Young speak. A young man who works with me, J., asked me who that was. I guess it's not surprising; he hasn't been in the news much lately, but I was shocked. Martin Luther King's lieutenant in the Civil Rights movement, mayor of Atlanta, named ambassador to the UN by Jimmy Carter...preacher, statesman...We got there 30 minutes early because I was afraid we couldn't get a seat in the UGA Chapel, but sadly there were still empty seats when he spoke. I guess he is not that well known among college-age people. His talk was not the very best I have heard; he must be in his 70s. But we were glad we had gone. It was the 10th anniversary Mary Frances Early Lecture. She was the first African-American to graduate from UGA. Two others were the first to enroll--they were undergraduates. But she transferred from Michigan to finish her graduate program here in 1962. She was a delightful woman, who also spoke briefly. Very attractive and charming. Also we enjoyed the music by the Hodgson Hall string quartet.

Otherwise, life is going along. Work--still enjoying it, but hard, need to cut back a little; cooking...lunch with Becky yesterday, last night potluck and choir.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

I am feeling a little down this morning. When I was just waking up, I was thinking Molli was still here. My Dad says you feel depressed and then you look for reasons. Maybe I haven't been eating right or getting enough exercise. Maybe I am let down after looking forward to the beach and Molli's visit for a while. Maybe I worked hard yesterday--I did, trying to make that blasted budget come out right for hours. It made the day go by quickly though. Then I didn't really have time to do all my regular work. I'll get caught up today. We had lots of good leftovers for lunch and supper. Ray is not completely well, either. He has been working so hard, getting up before me every morning. He only has a few more weeks before the end of the semester. We will do something fun in May or June, although I am not sure what yet. Maybe I am stressing a little bit over where to go that would be fun but not too expensive.

Monday, April 5, 2010

We had a great day with friends and good food. The weather was good--in fact, too hot for Easter. It was sad, there were no children to hide eggs. The service in the morning was interesting--a member played a koto and the women's choir sang Sakura. Dave preached about the road to Emmeus and remembering people you love. (short version). I thought about how I had such a nice visit with Molli, the happiness overshadowed the sadness that she was gone. But in the evening when I was home, with nothing I really had to do, I started to feel a little restless and sad. I had trouble falling asleep, because it was too hot. And then I woke up late and am behind schedule!

Sunday, April 4, 2010

Friday was one of those days when joy crossed the line over into stress. I had a lot to do and think about and didn't sleep very well. Eventually I convinced myself that it was going to be fine and the reason I had so much going on was because I liked it that way.

Ray and I managed to get going early enough that he was able to take the bus and I got to work on time or even a little early--although I couldn't find my keys. Now that I think of it, I need to look in my purse because they may still be missing. In fact, I need a new purse with a safe and convenient place to keep my keys. M. was not planning to come in for long, because she had out of town company. I read over the grant proposal and made a few notes of minor things to fix. I found a discrepancy between the attached overall budget and the program budget in the grant, so spent most of the morning checking and revising all the numbers, that being the part I am really responsible for. If the words suck, that will be M.'s fault, but if the numbers don't add up, she can blame it on me. Numbers are very tedious, but concrete. They will add up, if you do it right. There is a definite right and wrong to them. Words are less clear. If our grant is not approved (which would be very surprising), we won't really know whether it was because we didn't put in enough detail or use enough emotion or any number of other things. When M. got there, she made all the changes and we talked a little. She left again. K. was there from 9-11. I left the interns in charge at noon and met Molli, my parents, Janna, her Mom, her aunt, Deb and Nathan at the National for lunch. It was lovely, delicious and fun. Maybe I should title this blog something about food, because that is what seems to define my life in many ways. Molli and I picked up Ray and drove to the bank. She had travelers' checks to deposit, money she is repaying us. We drove home, another beautiful warm sunny day.

I had promised boiled potatoes for the seder and was ready to peel enough for 35 people. When I looked at the ones Molli had bought, though, they were young red potatoes with very thin skins. So I just scrubbed them and she cut them up and we put them in a big pot of boiling water. At four, when we left to go help set up, Ray scooped out some of the water so it wouldn't spill and carried them out to the car. Molli carried them in. She tested them and said, "they're done." So we drained them in a giant colander they have at UUFA. Some people were there setting up tables and chairs, but no one was in charge. This is one of my least favorite things. If you need someone to be in charge, let me know. Different people had different ideas of how things should be set up. No one had checked to make sure we had enough silverware or wine glasses. We muddled along, though, and the dinner was very fun. My favorite part is dipping your pinky in the wine for the 10 plagues. Art's "relatives" dropped him off to join us. Debbie and John and Ron and Janna were there too. The matzo ball soup was excellent. Most of the food was good.

After supper, Ray and Molli and Art and I drove to the Melting Point where there was an REM birthday party. It was a benefit for the Shelter and the Food Bank--and I had two free tickets. Lots of different bands were playing REM songs. Unfortunately, Art couldn't go in because he was under 18. And the event was sold out, so Molli and I went in briefly and left them in the car. We saw Supercluster play 3 songs. Members included Vanessa and Bob Hay and a lot of people in interesting attire. They were pretty good and the audience was excited. Molli and I would definitely have stayed longer. I never found the organizers--Cathy and Maureen--to thank them and congratulate them. Cathy will probably come by Monday morning, but I didn't know what she looked like and she didn't know what I looked like. It was kind of dark and crowded and noisy--not good for finding people. We did bump into Richard F., Amelia's first boyfriend, who was apparently a photographer for Heap, one of the bands. He looked smaller and darker than I remembered. I probably wouldn't have recognized him, but he said something to Molli and they chatted a bit. Then we went outside and came home. Molli headed off to a party at Kevin's house (and didn't come home until 3 am). I kept waking up--I had left lights on for her--and trying to decide whether to worry or not. At 3, I called her and she was in our driveway, just coming home.

Then I woke up a couple more times. I had to take Art to the shuttle for Atlanta airport at 6:30. I had time to eat some breakfast, but not blog. The streets were deserted and we caught all the lights so were there in plenty of time. I was a little annoyed because he was not ready at 6, but it turned out not to be a problem. I found out his flight was not until noon, but Mitzi had wanted him to take the early shuttle to make sure he had plenty of time at the airport. His English is still not very good.

Back home, Ray had gotten some water bottles ready. Molli was up. We headed to the Run/Walk for Home, an event we used to go to every year, about 20 years ago. We were almost last, but one very large man finished about 15 minutes behind us. I had set a pretty slow pace--I wanted to be sure of finishing and not being too exhausted. We did it! It was pretty fun--the weather was not hot, but not cold. The route went along the river and the policemen kept the cars at bay. We were hungry and thirsty and my legs were tired, but I was not exhausted. We saw a couple people we knew (Kent S. for one), but it was not as well attended as in its heyday--about 400 people or less compared to over 1000. Very amusingly, Molli said to me, "Look who I found." I studied her face, she was tall and pretty thin. I said, "I don't know who she is." It was Andrea C., Molli's childhood friend. I hadn't seen her for more than 10 years. She is in law school at UGA. It was quite fun. I told her we still had the same phone number and she rattled it off. She is engaged to marry a black man and her father and she are estranged over it. She was surprised at their reaction. They have been dating quite awhile and she is "out of the will," she said. Sad and funny. Molli and I claim credit for our influence on her when she was little...although she was always strong willed.

Molli and I were looking up restaurants in Atlanta to eat at. It had to be open at 3 in the afternoon, so we could have a pleasant meal and still get her to the airport at least 2 hours before her 7:30 flight. My parents couldn't decide whether to go with us. It was a beautiful day for gardening and the Captain also had to write his column. I had to do some cooking for today--Happy Easter! My Mom had already made the lemon squares and was thinking about starting the brownies. I made the rolls and put them to rise in the refrigerator. We all ate a little bit of lunch, enough to keep us from feeling sick in the car on the way over. We got under way about quarter of two, heading for a French place in Buckhead we had not heard of before that had a great looking menu.

OMG it was so good! We had a wonderful time. The waiter was a middle-aged man with a French accent and excellent service. We just had a ball. We had seen gougeres on the on line menu and ordered them the minute we sat down. They are little balls of light pastry infused with cheese. Yummm. When we looked at the menu, they were not on it. Later he explained that they were on the dinner menu, but they went ahead and made some for us. We debated and got some white wine--Chateau Haux, if I remember. It was wonderful, with a hint of peaches. To keep it cold, they put it in a sort of heavy plastic bag of ice. It worked. They had "formules"--prix fixe menus that you could choose two or three plates for 22 or 28 dollars, not a bad price for outstanding French food. Molli had white bean soup with truffle oil--excellent. It was in an individual tureen and there was a good amount of it. Ray had an excellent mixed green salad with classic French dressing--a hint of mustard. Nobody asked what kind of dressing he wanted; that's what you get if you order that salad. The Captain had rabbit ravioli--we were all excited about it, but I think that was the least delicious thing we ate. Cute little individual raviolis--15 of them, with garnishes, but just a little bland.

For main course, I had shrimp, about 6 of them, in pastry. Sort of like fried shrimp, only really really good striped with a wonderful thick yellow sauce. Light and tasty. They were served on a celeriac salad, a cole slaw that I didn't really love and didn't finish. Molli and the Captain had the duck and it was fabulous. Ray had paillard--chicken pounded flat, served with asparagus. Vanessa had a sort of flatbread pizza with mushrooms. Good, but not my favorite. For dessert, Molli and I had pot de creme, Ray had baba au rhum and my mother had lemon tart. All outstanding and we enjoyed sharing them. Some people had coffee, which I understand was quite strong. We left very satisfied with an outstanding dining experience. The setting was great too--red leather (maybe) booth seating in an open area, with bottles of wine making a divider between us and the bar. Even the bathrooms were very cool.

We got Molli to the airport in plenty of time and sat around with her for awhile, letting the Captain play with my iPhone some. He liked the compass. As Ray drove home, we listened to Prairie Home Companion and dozed. It was quite pleasant. At home, the Captain set up to work on his column--in the living room. I would have watched some television, but went to bed instead, reading a little and falling asleep by 9. A wonderful day, although we were very sad to see my Molli go.

Friday, April 2, 2010

It's not even 5:30 yet, and I've been up for over an hour. Some idiot called here at 4 in the morning--a wrong number, I assume. He (or she) did not say anything--just static on the line. Then called back a couple minutes later--still nothing--jeez! Then I started thinking about everything I have to do in the next few days and how much nicer it was to be at the beach with not a care in the world!

Not that the things I have to do are unpleasant. I will be working this morning and then going to lunch with good friends and relatives. Seder dinner at UUFA tonight--but first I have to buy and prepare potatoes for 35 people and show up early to set up. and I have to figure out how Art is getting here. And make sure his room is ready.

We registered for the Run/Walk tomorrow morning--8 am. Not prepared--I was supposed to do a lot of walking this week to build up for it...Molli leaves tomorrow night--boo hoo! And by Sunday noon I have to do some cooking--rolls, dessert, quiche. I have lots of ideas, but not sure I want to spend all day Saturday cooking. Hmm, it doesn't sound so bad, now that I've written it all out...

Yesterday I worked some. M. and I have pretty much got the DCA grant ready. I spent probably an hour trying to find us on the floodplain map and print it out. And the Board president has to sign it today. She is notorious for not coming when she says she will. Then we have to number the pages and photocopy it. I might read it over one time this morning to see if there is anything that needs changing.

I met Ray and Molli for lunch and it was delicious. I went back to work and waited for Molli to come pick me up--and waited--and waited. Then we went to Borders and came on home. The Captain was in the garden--it was over 80 degrees, sunny and hot. He had been to the dump and gotten a load of manure. He had shoveled some of it out, I took a turn, and Molli finished it up. Good for the garden, but this time it's really fresh and stinky. And will have to sit a while before we can use it. Then I watered some.

Molli prepped the butternut squash and made daiquiris with frozen strawberries--delicious. Ray got home before 7:30 from Democratic Committee meeting and we ate. Watched some TV and knitted some and started falling asleep about 9:30.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Molli's home!

I worked hard 8-3:30 yesterday. M. is doing a report for one of our grants. We are looking forward to next year, when everything will be done right and we will have better data. It looks like only about 25% of the Job TREC clients got jobs, which doesn't look too good on paper.

When Ray and I got home, Molli and Vanessa and the Captain had just arrived. We unpacked boxes, took a walk with the dogs, and got ready for potluck. They had a safe and uneventful trip back from the coast, but were a little tired. Some of the little plants had died while the Captain was  gone and he was quite unhappy about it. The weather was gorgeous.

Everyone commented on how great Molli looked and it was nice to sing with her. We got home and had ice cream and watched a couple of episodes of Big Bang Theory that she hadn't seen and went to bed.